tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15260287243543690732024-03-13T06:58:06.890-04:00Anaya Jahzaraanayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.comBlogger188125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-41384779231071133272015-01-17T13:36:00.003-04:002015-01-21T01:38:25.697-04:00#NoNewFriends...Okay...Maybe a Few. <div dir="ltr" style="line-height: 1.15; margin-bottom: 0pt; margin-top: 0pt;">
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">She did not know me. I mean of course she knew my name, she knew what horrendous grades I made in her Spanish class one term, but she also did not hesitate to let me know that the group of friends I had been keeping, was probably not the right fit for me. She told me that I could do better on all fronts, that I had immense potential as a student and I was wasting away because I was not taking the opportunity of being there (</span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-style: italic; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">there:</span><span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"> a good school with tremendous room for growth and learning) seriously enough. She did not know me. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">One of the most interesting navigations for me centers on friendships and relations outside of family. Possibly because these relationships are forever being negotiated between parties involved. I reflect on Keith Basso’s anthropological study of Western Apache cultural practice, where silence is used in particular social situations, one of these being between parents and children, when the child returns from school abroad.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">This puts much into perspective for me. There are folks who I can no longer have extensive conversations with. Simply because we have grown in different directions, have different priorities, value different things in life, are at different stages in our journey. Which for me some years ago was a devastating reality. The silence was/is an expression of this distancing in ideas. I cannot attribute this to time and space only, because I have maintained meaningful relationships with friends in all parts of the world, space not a factor, time not a factor, we somehow reconvene and are magically still in sync with each other.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">I can also acknowledge places where there is no such magic anymore. This can be a quick eulogy for those things. They are probably not the right fit for me. I have walked away from them with an interrupted laugh, but was given a more serious outlook on the world about me and everything else to be grasped.</span></div>
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<span style="background-color: transparent; color: black; font-family: Arial; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; text-decoration: none; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;">After my principal pulled me aside that day, nothing was really the same. I landed in the top 5 of my class within a year, and I developed a strong sense of independence and personal drive. It was important that I understood who I could be, outside of other people, outside of people who may have had different goals and interests from mine. Outside of folks who had no intention on supporting my vision, more so, as this vision evolves. In 2015 I am so very accepting of the incredible people that God is surrounding me with, and the equally wonderful ones he is separating me from. I know who these are by the kind of silence they keep, and I know this is how it ends. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">For every moment of doubt I have had about my writing and the stories I choose to tell, I always experience these huge moments of confirmation and endorsement by the universe, in some form or fashion, and always at a necessary appointed time. I say no to the notion of co-incidence and chance and deign that the same source of divinity that has allowed me to create worlds with my hands, is the same force that sanctions these periods of revelation and enlightenment.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">One of these moments happened last week listening to Saul Williams and <a href="http://www.sanfordbiggers.com/" target="_blank">Sanford Biggers</a> speak on afrofuturism, its relationship to 'Sankofa' within the West African cultural cannon and then the use of stories that represent our supernatural ability in the past and the construction of the future. The construction of new myths. Here it is that this particular mask above was in the space, and that I chose to build work around it, without taking due notice of its colors or its story. Yet after conducting enough research, I came to learn that it is the same narrative that my work has been pushing in these past 3 odd years, that is, life as sea beings (the man transformed into the halibut-fish), life on earth (the thunderbird becoming human and living on the land) and life in the sky (a narrative on flight and airborne ability). I had never before last week considered my own work to be part of a larger body of afrofuturistic artwork and storytelling.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">It happened on my visit to Trinidad in the summer of 2013 when I was told that these 'characters' I had been writing about in my play were not mere constructions of different women in my head, but they were actual, historical beings with real names and real lives. I had been talking about them without knowing they ever existed. Herein is the magic of what we do. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This dancing the mask performance was to serve as commentary on our rites of Jouvay, in the traditions that preceded ours. Even in the absence of direct connections. The open beak with the human face inside is the essence of what masking and masquerade is truly about:</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;">This is what my work has been about, unmasking our truth, telling these very human stories in the shroud of gone legacies of supernatural living and fantasy. In fact, so long as there is a living God above me, what is there in my life that is not part of a superhuman experience? Dancing the mask is very much like dancing this skin, dancing these flesh and bones, dancing this body that makes me appear as though I were not really a spiritual being. It is a daily dance with a constantly evolving music. It is never about hiding, but playing the larger than life entity to reveal the truth about us. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small; line-height: normal;">Hope this finds you in warmer thoughts than it actually is outside. As we're moving into slam season with April being National Poetry Month, I have a few 'save the dates' for you and your calendar:</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small; line-height: normal;">The Brooklyn College Slam Team will be competing in the Friday Night Slam at the world renowned Nuyorican Poet's cafe located at <span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 14px;">236 East 3rd Street between Avenue B and Avenue C. It costs $10 for entry which includes a long wait outside. but if you're not a fan of freezing weather, a $20 VIP online booking gets you in before the crowd and out the cold. Come early/on time, things get crowded. Show starts at 10pm.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small; line-height: normal;"><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;"><span style="line-height: 14px;">The Brooklyn College Slam Team has been vigorously training for this national competition, and we need as much support as we can get from our well-wishers and the wider Brooklyn community. We do not have an exact schedule yet, but what we can promise is that all our bouts will take place between 6-10pm on the above dates at Barnard College at </span></span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, 'Nimbus Sans L', sans-serif; line-height: 14.640625px; text-transform: uppercase;">3009 BROADWAY, NEW YORK, NY 10027</span><span style="font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; line-height: 14px;">. Events should be free and open to all the public You can reach out to me via email or phone to get the exact bout times as the competition gets closer. Hopefully we make it to final stage this year.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small; line-height: normal;">I'm pleased to announce that this semester I'm directing a One Act play on campus and it promises to be an impactful work, considering the chilling discoveries that have been happening our rehearsals this week. These plays happen in Room 316, Roosevelt Hall, Brooklyn College and are contribution based.</span></div>
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anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-11833026243176999892013-03-10T01:51:00.002-04:002013-03-10T01:51:25.749-04:00"... yea, the Trini girl with the accent from the slam team." end quote.It's been an annoyance following me over the last week every time I acknowledge how I had not written here in such a long time. It's with an 11:05pm cup of coffee that I need to make work happen. I'm needing to relearn how to not always embrace the emotions surrounding things. Emotions are sometimes good compasses but they cannot be the only thing you listen too. I'm accepting more and more that the time will never avail itself to you. It is something that always depends on you seizing it and being an artist depends on grabbing time more than ever.<br />
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The one-woman show is moving with its own patience, and I surely need to relegate more time every week working with it, but I know that some of the uneasy and nervousness about it is my mind's own anticipation for an uncontrollable magic that is about to happen. My director is really engaging the piece and me here just noticing the unfolding of things and the ideas and poems and sensing how it is going to be the most beautiful plant that spring will blossom me. I am also directing a One Act that goes up in April at school, which thematically ties very closely into my solo show. Finding that script was a miracle in itself. It was one of those things that was bound to happen.<br />
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I've been thinking a lot lately about identity, (not only because of the gender class I'm taking this semester) in how my subconscious self has been awakening new ways of speaking and thinking about myself and who I consider myself to be right now. I recall a conversation we were having about Black Power in Trinidad in the 1970's when my artistic director, Camille said that after a while she gave up on wearing dashiki outfits and traditional Yoruba clothing usually associated with the movement, because she realized that the blackest part of her was her own skin. That no external thing could give a stronger indication of who she was than the embodiment of her own self.<br />
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That's mostly how I've been feeling about a number of things these days, particularly when it comes to a performance of gender and nationality. It happened today and it happened last week. It seems as though I've moved beyond having to identify myself as 'Trinidadian' when introducing myself to people. I tend to give my name and what I spend most of my time doing- schooling and working and writing. Also,this semester more than ever before, I've really tapped into exploring my 'feeling' side where I present myself in the way that I feel. If I feel like sweats, I'll wear sweats all week with bulky boy boots, I'd probably not comb my hair for a few days and don a wool hat to hide it. Winter is almost over and I haven't used my winter wedge heeled boots more than once, My sweater dresses have barely been touched (if at all) and my make-up kit looks as brimming as it did when I updated it last December.<br />
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That being said, more and more I'm interested in just being. It's not always easy to do that given social context, but the top of 2013 for me has been about being healthy, getting work done and being comfortably myself when doing it. There are parts of myself that I do not feel pressured to assert anymore. It might have to do with living in a huge city and constantly competing with people and always having to prove that you're the best this, or the best that, and I'm over it. I am inhabiting my body, and I've learnt that the truest parts of my identity will always be oozing out of me and there is no need to spotlight what is already glowing. I don't always need to call attention to my Caribbeanness and femininity to prove that they exist.<br />
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<br />anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-10912695099446715492013-01-05T23:16:00.001-04:002013-01-05T23:24:40.104-04:00Top 7 things of 2012<br />
2012 had certainly been a year of wholeness and fulfillment in a number of areas in my life. Here are the top seven things I am thankful for.<br />
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7. Mentorship.<br />
At Brooklyn College, I've been able to come by a life-coach who is going to be an essential part of my work in 2013 and moving forward. In reading a small book on US Classroom Culture, they spoke about faculty out here being much more impersonal and distanced than in other countries. While I can swear by that fact for the most part, I've been blessed enough to come across professors and mentors who have a vested interest in seeing me succeed academically and in my creative work, (most of them being immigrant anyway). I have been finding myself through lunch conversations and office-couch sittings, one exchange at a time.<br />
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6. Future Work<br />
Making plans for 2013 had been one of the joys of 2012. Apart from planning and organizing conferences at school (one of which includes Spike Lee as the keynote speaker in February) and writing for a new African diasporic journal, I will be crafting and developing my first one-woman show as an independent study this spring. The show 'Cascadoo' will center on defining 'home' and how this definition is never fixed and changes by season and cycle. This has been a 5 year long dream about to materialize. Excitement is not even the word anymore.<br />
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BNV always makes it into my top experiences, every year. It was just beautiful being out in the Bay Area, I surely need to spend some time living and working there before exiling myself from America after studies are completed. The best parts for me this year were the one-on-one conversations with youth community leaders, activists and the elders of YouthSpeaks, in truly looking for ways to develop our home bases. For me this year, I honestly wasn't really about the poems, but working to facilitate the space for young people to engage each other, ask questions, develop solutions, all while having fun in a creative space. This year, don't ask me what teams had dope poems or which MC killed it, but ask me which individual or group of individuals allowed their actions and their ideas and their love speak for them and I will be able to tell you. Also, the Future Corps network is priceless in the training and spirit we are cultivated in. For 2013, I don't particularly see myself going to the festival itself, but sure as hell taking what I have learnt to Trinidad and wherever else it is needed.<br />
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4. Two Cents<br />
In the same breath of youth and passion, spending time with the young people/young adults of the Two Cents Movement in Trinidad, was truly a heart warming experience, in just being able to sit down and have conversations, and create work. It was an inspiring moment to recognize that the work has miracle-loaved itself into a form that is in the hands of a younger group, willing to take it to the next level with a certain amount of devotion and group politic that had been lacking before.<br />
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We're at it again for 2013. The old 2012 team re-qualified for this year's Brooklyn College Slam team, and this group has constantly been a source of strength, inspiration, family and love in this last year. We're a family, with great moments, moments of brilliance, disagreements, pranks and occasional rachetery, but it has been a blessing to grow with this group and have a support system such as this one. We also absorbed Mega as part of the team this year and have the Nuyorican's Mahogany Browne as our coach, so it's bound to be beautiful in the next upcoming months.<br />
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2. Academia<br />
By the grace and mercy of God, I was able to come by four scholarships from CUNY and Brooklyn College for a number of things including academic merit, activism and a fellowship for travel. These awards still do not completely pay for school (or even remotely so) but they have been essential to my being able to complete my studies and not have me drop out of school and go back home. God knows I need these things to survive in this country, and has made a way where there was none. These are my parents prayers in tangible form.<br />
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Being able to finally travel to SA to be with Ryan and to spend time at the Market Theatre Lab was everything I needed to know that God is in charge of my life and that he is the grantor of prayers and dreams. 2013 makes it four years that Ryan and I have been journeying together and it is with increased faith and strength that I have been able to live and be fulfilled by this love and this commitment. The opportunity arose, the chance was seized and it was just crazy how everything fell into place and with precision. God is in charge and I can only wait to see what beauty he has in store for us in the upcoming year.</div>
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The self-sufficiency and independence that 2012 had been able to teach me has surely been making me into the kind of warrior my ancestors had been hoping for me to become. The kind of revelations God has been giving me in the creation of this show and the encouragement of those around me has led me to believe that 2013 is going to be one for the archives. I have many people that I thank God for whose presence in my life has surely been essential to my growth, both home and abroad (wherever those two places are to me now). They have all been light and know who they are.</div>
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A friend came over yesterday and almost immediately picked up the big bowl of earrings I keep on my dresser and started arranging them in pairs. In going through the stories and places of where they came from, we had somehow started talking about the spirit world, and travelling, and how spirits travel.<br />
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Even though the latter bit was unrelated to the jewelry itself, I remembered growing up that whenever I received wearable gifts from Africa or India, my mother would give me the bottle of holy water and explain that I should bless them and pray on them before I even try them out. Not really thinking about it until yesterday, I've realized how conditioned we have been towards our darker skinned origins, how colonialism has solidified for us what is pure and what is unclean.<br />
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Of all the objects in my Trinidadian home, at least a quarter of them are made in China, we do not bless the new plastic mug before we make juice in it. We do not bless our Brazillian shoes from Ate logo. We have over and over been part and victim of the demonization of the same traditions that allow us to be here. I understand that spirits occupy things, if so, bless all the British printed books on the shelf that are quietly occupying your home, particularly the ones that have the effect of embodying lies surrounding your ancestors, for that of all, must be one of the most evil spirits that can exist in a thing. Bless everything in sight then.<br />
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This must also extend to my philosophy on thrift stores and wearing the second-hand clothes of strangers. I do not believe in embodying someone I have not known. Clothing is a most personal affair, something that touches the skin, is exposed to the sweat, the sweat being something inside of you that comes to the surface, something about that is way too spiritual for me to walk into a store and buy a top for $5 that can house some ghost that I am not trying to entertain. Friends and family, maybe. Vintage stores, not so much.<br />
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He has a brown bag with a 40's bottle to his mouth and is shouting at anybody who would listen <i>"My life sucks, but I love it, it's the only one I got!"</i>. The 40-something year old broken record of a Chicano on Church Avenue, repeats his sentence as though he himself acknowledges the poetry of it, and is satisfied with how concisely he has been able to describe his life in the brief open narrative. I have been paying more attention to the homeless people in my neighborhood in recent months, and the fact that I see these very specific people at least four times a week, has made them a troubling part of my environment.<br />
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There is the young man with the black and red jacket, and the nike's to match, exposing his bone at the ankle. The story is that his mother lives on my street corner and she put him out because of drugs. On average twice a month he calls out to me and laughs with a sustained giggle when I don't respond to him. Honestly, I am afraid of him, since I see him at least once a day and he does not say much. I have understood that the quiet ones are those who purge in the most radical of ways, and usually avoid him when I can.<br />
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There is the man with the balding scalp who asks only for dollar bills. The fear I have for him is different. I have seen him everywhere, which is unlike this city. You barely see the same people twice. I have seen him at three restaurants in my neighborhood, just outside my campus, once inside the grocery and one evening on the train. All within the space of three months. He has a very personalized way in asking for money and I started wondering at one time if he actually knows my face and targets me. Bell Hooks in her discussion of <u>Performance Practice as a Site of Opposition</u> mentions <i>"the notion of manipulative performance for survival". </i>He begs so discreetly that you think it is a private matter between you and him alone, which has some type of emotional effect on the way people generally respond to him.<br />
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Hooks explains that these homeless people <i>"are possessed spirits. In another culture- not a while supremacist, capitalist, patriarchal nation- their words might be listened to, their wisdom heeded."</i> This sentiment reminded me very much of an experience Ryan and I had in the Eastern Cape, while waiting for our fifteen hour bus-ride back to Joburg. This old homeless man came up to us, speaking as much English as he could extract, and asks Ryan for money. Upon receipt of a few rand, he proceeds to give us advice for our relationship, and the importance of fidelity. He had approached only us out of the group of people there, and spoke at length on how we should live our married life. He ends his spiel by talking about Barcelona and Manchester United football teams with Ryan. It was as though with the transaction he felt indebted to us in some way and worked to compensate with his story. The old man walked a few steps up the street and it was as though he disappeared completely. We scanned the area for him a mere thirty seconds after he left us, and he was nowhere in sight.<br />
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All these examples tie into an internal conflict of wanting to engage people but being afraid of what they are capable of. I would even add that my being a woman has mostly raised my perceived risk level, these are people who are still out on the street when I am walking home late at night. I cannot be naive about the city and its monsters. But, what if they are not the monsters? And which one of them is Christ? I am caught daily wanting to help people, but I have never before been so aware of death and violence as probability since I moved to Brooklyn. My thoughts for now have been laid out, but not finished.<br />
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Also, this has been a wonderful project in Trinidad that works to capture the stories of the homeless, please check it out:<br />
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<li>Let's Get It On: The Politics of Black Performance Edited by Catherine Ugwu Bay Press 1995</li>
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Coming after what seems to have been a national outcry by the socially conscious adult public of Trinidad and Tobago, (admittedly gauging mainly from intensely angry facebook posts in my newsfeed), there seems to be much disapproval on the identity politics surrounding Atlanta-based rapper 'Trinidad James'. The young man explains in a promotional <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8qNgXw39vQs" target="_blank">interview</a> that he hails from Port of Spain and Mt. Hope,Trinidad and left the island to come to America where he entered the second grade in elementary school (which would land him at about 6 or 7 years of age at the time).<br />
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He explains that he was raised by his mother and that he moved from Trinidad such a long time ago that he does not remember much, but recalls a few anecdotes such as a childhood friend, eating doubles and drinking his first coconut water. He expresses that he had conflicts within himself as to determining who he was and "finding" himself when he moved to the US. Surely I can vouch for him here and say this is not the easiest transition to make in one's life. He also admits here that by the 4th grade, he lost his accent.<br />
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The rapper has prospects of returning to the island and even wants to enter into the soca monarch 2k13 competition. What I have so far outlined is important for me because I am currently looking at the circular immigration process and developing something I have called the 'Cascadoo narrative' (more on this later). I would therefore venture to say that Trinidad James is now recognizing this dual consciousness within himself, however distasteful we might find his exploration of this world. He is trying to uncover a part of himself that "he cannot remember", but he identifies himself as something while standing on the outside of that very thing.<br />
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He is wanting to be a part of this world. He has named himself after the island, and in his debut music video <i><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hCBs5f1vxyw" target="_blank">"All Gold Everything"</a></i> can be seen sporting Trinidad's national colors, much in the same way that American gangster culture uses particular colored bandannas to represent their clique affiliation. His cadence follows the usual Atlanta drawl while his language is interspersed with pieces of Trinidad dialect "all in my" can transition to "all in meh" as "jeh watch" to "jus watch". I would also argue that gold has traditionally been the Caribbean's precious metal of choice for exhibiting wealth, as opposed to the now popular American bling diamonds and platinum. As Caribbean people we all had at least one family member or neighbour with a gold tooth in their mouth in the 90s (or at present?).<br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">Trinidad James is actually performing his confusion, and should not be blamed entirely for what he considers as a journey towards himself. Nuttal looks at a number of adjustment strategies employed by adolescent Caribbean youth who migrate to America and have listed them as:</span><br />
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<b id="internal-source-marker_0.7008292209357023" style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><i><span style="font-family: inherit;">a) conformity (individuals dislike themselves and admire members of the dominant culture), (b) dissonance (conflicts arise between individuals depreciating and appreciating feelings for themselves, views held by the majority culture and other minority groups, and their own personal feelings), (c) resistance and immersion (individuals begin to appreciate themselves, ethnocentric feelings emerge, and they begin to dislike the majority culture), (d) introspection (individuals explore and examine the reason for liking themselves or their group, and the ethnocentric basis for judging other minorities and the dominant culture), and (e) synergetic articulation and awareness (individuals begin to accept and respect different cultural values of other minority groups, the dominant culture, and their own; Nuttall et al., 1990).</span></i></span></b><br />
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<span style="color: #333333;"><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">In accordance with James' interview, he sounds like he went through a number of these stages at different times in his life and is now in a space where he accepts American culture as his own, but recognizes still that it is not the only thing he has. I think that we actually have no right to determine that he is not Trinidadian on the basis that we do not see ourselves in him. Actually, I think that we are so frightened by how much we see our country in him that it's easier to dismiss him as ridiculous and 'shameful' than engage the mirror he is offering us.</span></span><br />
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<span style="color: #333333;"><span style="white-space: pre-wrap;">James is the primary school friend who disappears from school one day and never comes back and the teacher announces that "he went to America" (these children hardly ever say a formal goodbye to their class). James is the product of readjustment probably with a mother who had to work multiple jobs, provide for him and did not get the sit-down time with him when he got home from school. James has the same ancestors as I do and we are probably remotely related somehow. James wants to somehow be included in that world he was pulled from. James performs America because America (gangster rap et al.) is what has raised him, you cannot give what you do not have. James is an adaptation to his environment, leopard print fur and everything therein.</span></span><br />
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<li><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: x-small;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;">Mitchell N. Academic Achievement Among Caribbean Immigrant Adolescents: The Impact of Generational Status on Academic Self-Concept. </span><i style="background-color: white; border: 0px; color: #333333; line-height: 18px; margin: 0px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline;">Professional School Counseling</i><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; line-height: 18px;"> [serial online]. February 2005;8(3):209-218. Available from: Academic Search Complete, Ipswich, MA. Accessed November 10, 2012.</span></span></li>
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<li><b id="internal-source-marker_0.7008292209357023" style="font-weight: normal;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; vertical-align: baseline; white-space: pre-wrap;"><span style="font-family: inherit; font-size: x-small;">Nuttall, E., DeLeon, B., & Valle, M. (1990). Best practices in considering cultural factors. In A. Thomas & J. Grimes (Eds.), Best practices in school psychology (pp. 219-233). Washington, DC: The National Association of School Psychologist, 35, 1061-1070.</span></span></b></li>
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<br />anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-59166494660995563192012-11-02T01:33:00.000-04:002012-11-02T01:37:11.806-04:00Dia de Muertos<table align="center" cellpadding="0" cellspacing="0" class="tr-caption-container" style="margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto; text-align: center;"><tbody>
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My father was born in the La Seiva Road cemetery in the 1960s. I grew up with my parents reminding me on every late night visit to my grandmother's house that I should fear the living more than the dead. It is only after having moved to America that I've come to appreciate my own worldview and the traditions that influence it regarding death and the afterlife. I have only seen two funerals in operation since I've been here, and one day I remember asking my friends whether they themselves go to funerals. The answer was no, not really.<br />
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Over the two odd years of my being here, having a mother who has often found herself as lead cantor at funeral services at our church in Sangre Grande, she has sometimes had as many as three funerals in a week. Surely I would attribute this to a closer-knit society and Caribbean culture where death is something commemorated by the community. People still feel the need to pay respect to the deceased, or merely lend support to the grieving family. In America, bodies are kept at the parlor where they are stored, then eventually they may or may not do a short service of sorts, after which people go to look at the coffin in the cemetery but never see it descend into the ground.<br />
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My theory is that grieving is such a sophisticated and drawn-out process in my culture that we give time for the dead to make the transition and for the living to begin adjusting to the absence of this person who has passed away. We often have open-casket funeral viewing, the body is sometimes brought to the house of the deceased, we have bullhorns announcing the death in the community, we keep wakes every night, we have nine nights (of prayer) after the passing, and we keep a church service forty days after the death date. In America, very few (if any) of these practices exist, even within a Caribbean community like Brooklyn. In my mind, this possibly has a connection to Halloween culture and how the dead are often demonized as evil zombies in popular culture.<br />
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Also, I think that America is lost to the idea of the realms of life being connected and a shared space for the unborn, the born and the ancestors (dead). If this were the case I think the abortion debate would be less of an issue. This is surely not a Western route, but what has been interesting for me as a black Catholic is the idea of the 'communion of saints' where those who have gone before us await us in the kingdom. As for who exactly constitutes a 'saint' by the standards of the RC church and its minority of canonized non-white saints, that is another blog post. I would say that I have been shaped by both West African philosophy and Catholic theology, which are not necessarily at loggerheads with each other. What these two things surely exclude is the limiting American (western) ideology that we belong to the present living state and that only.<br />
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I dreamt my grandmother last night. She was preparing to die but wanted us to comb her hair properly with a jeweled pin in her braid before she left this world. She said that she needed to be ready for the next. Bless her soul.<br />
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and may the souls of the faithful departed though the mercy of God rest in peace. Amen.<br />
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<br />anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-33809025488937576972012-09-27T01:10:00.000-04:002012-09-27T01:28:00.184-04:00Beulah, full of grace.<br />
My aunt is light on her feet, more of a floating spirit than human. The single thing anchoring her is a dark stone medallion with the Virgin Mary, the one where she is all Chicana in a star studded robe, hands at chest-center looking like she just finished the sun salutation yoga pose. She was in the side room and appeared to me while scanning the last version of the New York times. We end up talking about working, and not working, and employment and what the procedure was like when she first left Trinidad to come here. One had to call in, and apply over the phone. "Now they want to see everything on paper" she says.<br />
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She is a number of shades lighter than I am with naturally straight hair, but has a story about 'us black people' having to find work here in the 1970s. She explains in her simple linen white shirt and loose mint green pants that on the trains, white people would not ever sit next to blacks, and she muses on how much she has seen the world change in front of her. By now her eyes are more alive than I have ever seen, but her mouth moves with a certain composure, she is fully engaged in the memory of the thing and tells me that God is leveling the world.<br />
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She says that people are intermarrying, living in the same communities together, certain animals are becoming extinct, certain animals are coming into existence, some plants are growing smaller while smaller plants are growing larger. She is explaining that an equilibrium is being established in the world. Not that I had expected any marxist theology from the meagre bodied woman in a chemotherapy suite, but she says all these things with a collection and wisdom in her voice that I cannot doubt.<br />
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She mentions that the name 'Beddoe' that we came from was a well-known family name in Trinidad, that we were all related. She says that now it's like the name has been married out of us. We have enough girl children to show for it all. She used to paint things, beautiful things. She also wants to teach me graphology because she thinks the art is about to die. She says that God is coming soon, and floats back into the file room.anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-6891606280020900472012-09-06T23:10:00.000-04:002012-09-16T00:34:12.588-04:00how to spot a socouyant<br />
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I haven't been back to Brooklyn more than a half day, but this particular post has been months worth of thinking and processing. This year I'd been blessed immensely to do some travelling for the summer and the last three months have been the sum total of the most edifying time period in my growth as a person. As an artist, I've been absolutely obsessed with <a href="http://www.biology-online.org/dictionary/Geopathology" target="_blank">Geopathology</a> in a much wider understanding of the term as relates to how place and space impacts a person. As a result, I am working on developing a narrative on nomadic women in the 21st century Trans-Atlantic crossing. This will all make sense eventually, it has to. I will now walk through my travels in less detail as I would like.<br />
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South Africa<br />
Has to be by far the biggest leap of faith I've taken yet. This trip came together with certain magic, everything fell into place as it needed to. All that was needed was for me to trust my heart and get on the airplane. Getting there meant that everything in my life came to full alignment. Heart, soul and body were finally in the same place. Ryan is by far one of the most remarkable men I have ever come across and we will continue to build on what three years has set down for us. I felt at home in myself. Although he'd been the only person in the entire experience that I'd known in the country before the trip, my heart was full, and I had no desire to leave. This has never happened before. I'm usually one to be ready to be home again within the first week. I will spend some time living there at some point. God alone knows when and for how long.<br />
The young people at the theatre were absolutely welcoming and open to my presence with them. I took away the most valuable lesson in understanding that the theatre is the people in it and the stories they have to offer. It's not always about set and lights and sound cues and pretty things. The theatre is a medium of living and cannot be limited to some inanimate equipment and fanfare.<br />
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San Francisco<br />
The Brave New Voices festival in all its annual beauty had trumped my expectations this year by being one of the best since 2008. I felt like it had been arguably more communal, and an interactive safe space with less competitive sentiment floating around. I've certainly gained some more skills in event management and holding space. The Future Corps team got quite a work-out this year and carried much more weight and responsibility this time which is surely more beneficial to my work in arts education and event planning. I'm also appreciative of networking with new folks and being able to learn the internal workings of the organization.<br />
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Trinidad<br />
I am absolutely grateful for being able to have spent the three weeks with my parents. I appreciate them even more in adulthood and how they still believe in me. How they are two of the most compassionate and understanding people in my world. For the first time I've bonded with my mom the way I did this time around. She was rolling through shows with me, we went dancing together, she was finally part of a world I was passionate about- arts and culture. Dad is still getting by one day at a time, waiting on funding to start radiotherapy next month God Willing. Looking at him makes me appreciate life more. He aspires to get through every day, but isn't always able to do it. This doesn't stop him from making plans for the next morning.<br />
I've also noticed that people grow with time, and not always in the same direction, and I respect that also. I've experienced a feeling of displacement and unsettling from some relationships and I knew before that this was to be expected. Like I can barely hold conversation with some of my old friends. I felt the opposite of what I had in South Africa. It was now a space of exclusion and it was painful to not feel at home in the homes I had made in other people. It hurt. It still hurts. I remember getting home one night and crying and writing till I eventually fell asleep. How do you become the outsider in your house?<br />
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Brooklyn<br />
There is a garden party happening outside my window with 1980s calypso and dance reggae. I've realized the evolution of my vocabulary over the last two years. Trinidad was 'home'. Brooklyn was 'Brooklyn'. Now Trinidad is 'Trinidad' and Brooklyn is 'home'. This has left my mouth a number of times without me thinking about it until now. Labour Day is coming up and West Indians everywhere are having parties and endless silver trays of food. They've just started a bottle and spoon section and dancing. I feel at home here. I missed a poetry show tonight, only because I was too tired, not because I didn't have money or transport. I do not have any tuition money for school that starts in a week from tomorrow, but I know that it will come because I strongly believe that here is where God has appointed for me to be at this time in my life. If there are any who are upset with this, there is nothing I can do to help that. Outside they have just put on Black Stalin's music. I hear more calypso and soca in Brooklyn than I do in Trinidad. I have not betrayed any part of myself in being where God has put me. The countdown is on to J'ourvet morning in two weeks.<br />
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The triangle goes- Africa, Americas and the Caribbean. In mid-triangle there is the middle passage, the Atlantis, the women who abandoned ship, the people sleeping on the seabed. I am still moving in the current of my ancestors. Where my feet rest, is destiny enough for me to be at peace wherever that is. I will not disinherit anything or any place. I am only gaining. I am only growing. All these places are travelling with me, all of the time as in Coelho's Aleph. I am about to trace my foremother's steps to mine and then to my children's.<br />
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<br />anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com0Brooklyn, NY, USA40.65 -73.9540.553624 -74.1079285 40.746376 -73.7920715tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-33368027056672158222012-01-02T14:56:00.008-04:002012-01-02T16:36:58.750-04:00Top 11 Moments of 2011In no preferential order:<br /><br />1. Labour Day- West Indian Parade.<br />Carnival for me always needed to have meaningfulness, and for that, the most sensible part of the celebration for me is J'ourvet. This year we had dinner for our Dimanche Gras at a backyard party at my roomate's friend's house. We went back to my apartment and tried to get some school work done...fail. We left home at around 5:30am to meet the bands. The beauty here is in the coming together of all parts of the Caribbean and all our variations of the mas. It was wonderful to play J'ourvet again after so long, the laughing, the people, the colours, the drums, the iron, the after-tiredness. THERE WERE NO ELECTRONIC MUSIC TRUCKS WITH DJ's ON THEM. The ritual was returned, and it was wonderful.<br /><br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj89FOhASHKW61rI0Xn8V9dx7lUlKR9ML_EHkp1P3soN45y8rF7h-hSz04-RZXrPbvmEVhWLYBNGGeBw_cxrWcGvHpRGkSRqRvfuHQnWWkNFJVaJtAHDAnPINnWYccHI-NsjxJmHoHFLWra/s1600/IMG_3924.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj89FOhASHKW61rI0Xn8V9dx7lUlKR9ML_EHkp1P3soN45y8rF7h-hSz04-RZXrPbvmEVhWLYBNGGeBw_cxrWcGvHpRGkSRqRvfuHQnWWkNFJVaJtAHDAnPINnWYccHI-NsjxJmHoHFLWra/s400/IMG_3924.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5693122034308609586" border="0" /></a><br />2. Trip Back Home.<br />This was interesting to me for the most bit. It really helped me to evaluate life and put things into perspective. The things I want to change when I get back, the things I want to do for my parents when I start making the money, the friends who are really friends, the family that does not ever forget you. How much I have changed and been forced to grow over the last year. It was a time for observing, rest and learning.<br /><br />3. Californication i.e. Vacation in California<br />I went out to spend time with my uncle and his family. Northern California is a beautiful place. The weather may be a tad chilly for Summer time, but at least it's consistent and less extremes than this end of the continent. They showed me a really good time, Cooked me loads of food, took me shopping, taught me things about my grandmother that I did not know before, they even indulged my laziness. Chillwave music is my west coast discovery. I miss the frozen yoghurt shop too. Low fat and delicieux!<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsxiubIYY4bpLBceIKYNY7KjnQtn0KDDJXAYGnFKOER6uY9cOi9KBSUyEvzbH9GaaNA1dFWir5AoikKSm1aQz3pPBo82l6Kt1_xVgWf5-NaUfJqCkB_O15UEidUxbabgGF-AQElJb6PM3a/s1600/glass2.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgsxiubIYY4bpLBceIKYNY7KjnQtn0KDDJXAYGnFKOER6uY9cOi9KBSUyEvzbH9GaaNA1dFWir5AoikKSm1aQz3pPBo82l6Kt1_xVgWf5-NaUfJqCkB_O15UEidUxbabgGF-AQElJb6PM3a/s400/glass2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5693133849012732210" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><br />4. Brave New Voices 2011.<br />What can I say? BNV is always magical. The difference in this year was being able to sit back and see young people confront fear, push through struggle and overcome themselves. It is always an adventure and nurturing experience to be around Youth Speaks. I'm already looking forward to working with them in 2012. BNV is the cause of so many long-lasting friendships and networkingships in my life. The work is work and is sacred.<br /><br />5. Parents' Vists.<br />My mom came in August and my dad passed through NY in October. I am overly happy to have had spent one on one time with them. Our relationships have changed, now that we're all adults :) and so my relating to them has changed. They respect me and my decision making and continue to offer guidance when needed. I love and appreciate them both, so much.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiX42E9Z7tcq5JNaIoV-2Q7yGKFXJIBDf8Sq9CQJWeVpcoWfcwNBpE1MYH2dN7ypfYp9afaY_RhWFdPAGkHSn-HtYEptovMxMsCH6FPco_ZDD4lB-dq8FVeja5f0k3YT9jxpTTRy9jK6X8S/s1600/IMG_3675.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiX42E9Z7tcq5JNaIoV-2Q7yGKFXJIBDf8Sq9CQJWeVpcoWfcwNBpE1MYH2dN7ypfYp9afaY_RhWFdPAGkHSn-HtYEptovMxMsCH6FPco_ZDD4lB-dq8FVeja5f0k3YT9jxpTTRy9jK6X8S/s400/IMG_3675.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5693134767749943218" border="0" /></a><br />6. Relationships.<br />The people around you will always be shifted to make room for other people. I can say at this point that I am so gracious to God for surrounding me with so many beautiful people. I am thankful for every single one. It seems as though I am one called especially to love over distances. My boyfriend, my parents, my family, Kelby in France, Dej and Ivy back home, even Jar was away for the holidays. The people far away from me are always the ones I am closest to. The earth ain't that big though. Also, I am forming some really meaningful relationships with college faculty, committed to help me in any way they can.<br /><br />7. Changing majors to read for a BA in Theater and Social Change.<br />If you know me well enough, you would know how much of a dream is being attained here.<br /><br />8. Relevant Work<br />It is the most rewarding feeling to sit in a classroom, and learn about what you are actually interested in learning about. This year I've been able to dabble in Black Theatre and African American music classes. Both very theoretic and academic approaches to the artforms, but very edifying and helped me to rearrange my thoughts on our work and our process. Theater and music is about life. Classes like these have helped me understand why we live how we live.<br /><br />9. Relevant Work (Part 2)<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9MR7cJ7_NBGF6kyaDWIZ0QfzFwjVyFQ53jxuV74GDEQe1n8feeG_VLevqKldYH3jZaC4M2Ux9cD6wAdFpTwCZqaLaCQEhdvibkeuR5p9VM9M-AyyX04_I5JsZLP7tHIhNPx1w2-eiY5ih/s1600/Photo0027.jpeg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh9MR7cJ7_NBGF6kyaDWIZ0QfzFwjVyFQ53jxuV74GDEQe1n8feeG_VLevqKldYH3jZaC4M2Ux9cD6wAdFpTwCZqaLaCQEhdvibkeuR5p9VM9M-AyyX04_I5JsZLP7tHIhNPx1w2-eiY5ih/s400/Photo0027.jpeg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5693135282694144898" border="0" /></a><br />My teaching assistant job with Brian has progressed through its first year and it has been a wonderful learning experience for me to be on the other side of the class room. It is remarkable how much these classes actually align themselves to what I would like to accomplish professionally when I go back home. Who knows, maybe I might be able to design an entire syllabus on performance poetry in due time. Matter of fact, heh. I will.<br /><br />10. Making the Brooklyn College Slam Team.<br />Confession: I hate slamming. It is unnecessarily nerve-wrecking and unsettling. I am however elated to be part of this historical formation of the first ever BC Slam team, and I look forward to raising awareness on campus on the artform, and looking for ways to expand our work beyond the mic and stage and do some innovatively impressive performance ish. I am looking forward to building this team, this club and this campus. P.S. They've started an unoffical cypher club on campus, and this gets me excited. 2012 is also a year for new misogyny-free rap writing and feminist owning of these cyphers. I'm about to challenge myself.<br /><br /><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYPzUYnL1jHWoRVj6XCKCuBXrSV0rv8CE9-x0UDG51SL1m89kwUNGCBbPqNXZF0lZwNXUYKE6FXray5F5jcEmbs1NnMPaR86PkEEgd6J_PsG_mt4Yb2-XOP5LDkKC55zgDRNlVUBm0U-mf/s1600/IMG_4172.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgYPzUYnL1jHWoRVj6XCKCuBXrSV0rv8CE9-x0UDG51SL1m89kwUNGCBbPqNXZF0lZwNXUYKE6FXray5F5jcEmbs1NnMPaR86PkEEgd6J_PsG_mt4Yb2-XOP5LDkKC55zgDRNlVUBm0U-mf/s400/IMG_4172.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5693135638825405858" border="0" /></a><br /><br />11. Discoveries on art and process.<br />My Directing and Performance Technique classes in the last semester have done much to raise my level of self discovery and themes that constantly appear in my work. These themes are Ritualism, Feminism, Multiculturalism, use of Language and Music as a subtext. These seem to be influences that I cannot escape from at any given point. I'm chill with them though :)anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-86514136221173985092011-11-25T02:24:00.004-04:002011-11-25T02:53:08.357-04:00Re:PlacingTonight I sat down to have thanksgiving dinner at a table of women. Two generations and dozens of stories apart. The one next to me is Haitian and asks whether I am going to remain in America after school, and I never think about it when people ask me this question. There is no hesitation to my 'No', and she recounts to me that she said she would come here for five years. She is now well beyond forty years of living in New York.<br /><br />A friend had asked me the same question last night, told him I didn't see the point in having to exert myself for survival here when I could live comfortably with house and land on a quiet-enough island where the ocean doesn't freeze over in the loaf-end months. I can see the enticement of the opportunity here, but if you step back far enough, it's always a carrot-bait type of situation, and I'm just not that kind of horse. I understand it though. I understand the West Indian obsession with Brooklyn, we always move, waves at a time.<br /><br />Two of my sisters (God bless the hearts of these women) tonight asked where I wanted to live eventually, and whether I would stay in New York. At this point I feel like the universe is asking me to shape a clearer definition of myself and prodding me in the direction of a work I started this week. In creating a performance for a class project, I am beginning to form my first one-woman show, on the questions of destiny and identity and trusting dreams.<br /><br />More doors have been opening than I had keys to. God has been remarkably gracious to me in the last few months, and this year has been one of so much growth for me as a person. I am trying to expand beyond the US as of next year, I need to get hold of some scholarships and grants, but these things have already been surfacing. I have some key people at this point in my life that I am drawing experience from, and this is definitely a time of growth for me. I have been more grateful for life in this last week than I have ever been in my life.<br /><br />Building.anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-72199802489405835212011-10-15T23:36:00.004-04:002011-10-16T00:18:00.228-04:00To: Turning Tides in Concrete.Because of how academic school can actually get, I've had less time to make contributions into this blog and I decided to just get it done tonight, without planning to in advance. At this point, I'm taking a number of courses that have absolutely no eventual bearing on my theatre BA, because quite frankly, I'm over the idea of getting a theatre BA. I'm taking courses that will help my in my career goals in working with youth and community, a feminism course here, an African American music course there, a performance technique course in another corner. I am satisfied and comfortable with my decision to study what I want to study contrary to department advisory. certification is not skill.<br /><br />I'm transitioning to a Master's program hopefully next year around this time I will be in Grad School getting my hands dirty with actual community theatre as opposed to the broadway factory. Speaking of which, we have another great community of students that we're building with this year in the College Now class. You can see some of our work at: www.bcintrototheater.wordpress.com . It's always super exciting for me because American youth have such a non-shy willingness to engage in the classroom, and have a confident, fearless way about voicing issues affecting them, something I'm not sure I and my friends were doing when I was their age. It's refreshing, all the time.<br /><br />I feel like I've also been transitioning into the world of bilingualism. Or at least, some version of Spanglish. I'm not sure where it came from, I blame my latino class two semesters ago, I blame California and la casa de Erika Cespedes in Oakland, I blame the burritos. I blame my heightened awareness of Hispanic culture in my neighborhood. Yarminiah and the stories of her family in Miami, the misa in Spanish after ours on Sundays at church, the conversations over my head in packed trains, I blame buena vista social club and how they all seem so perfectly grandfatherly. I blame Cuba and how it appears to me everywhere in my consciousness. I do not know where it came from. But I know that God had me do it for seven years and promised that I would have use for it in the future. Maybe part of the plan is that the language is revived in me somehow. It's weird though. One morning I wake up and I start thinking in Spanish.<br /><br />With all of the #occupy events taking place throughout New York, the arrests, marches all over the world, the curfew back home being extended, troy davis, tuition hikes, poverty spreading, war, I sense like the whole world is breathing heavily in some kind of syncopated sighing. It is heavy, it is heated, it is heaving. I see and hear it with my young people. The world is frustrated. It isn't even deniable anymore. Everybody is fed up of the way things are. There is some kind of uneasiness happening in the air, and that is public knowledge. Everybody seems to be at their ends. These are tense times.<br /><br />Finally, I'm about to get around to doing what I really came to New York to do, i.e. building my career as a writer and performance artist. I'm about to slam in this upcoming week, so I've just been trying to prepare myself for it, and trusting that the dry spell of the last year performing-wise had a purpose to it in terms of my growth creatively.I feel like the time has gotten here, and I'm about to put my best foot forward into this. I feel like I've been given enough space in my schedule this semester for concentrated writing and crafting my work, and I am all about making it happen. Ready. Tell the tide time to turn.<br /><br /><iframe src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/69tjslt04Ks" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="315" width="420"></iframe><br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">"I keep silent, till he would order me to speak, and lift the spell over the world so I could wake dem from dey sleep"</span>anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-81912172841328509692011-09-10T23:04:00.006-04:002011-09-13T18:45:43.639-04:00To: The West Indian Day Parade and the Question of Culture.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEih3rWAzjQUqHxLmOpnK-7O2Em9pgx3NzD-R5vpu1NTNlySYx-8leRnaRNJDbT-OFF9eZGCosOwnFduCBkjJs2SeyyAC6XT6Z55ecQhIIbTTi25KU0I8Fr0U0bVc8BP_-8G5i58NdwQAzcN/s1600/slide_189744_350250_large.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 291px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEih3rWAzjQUqHxLmOpnK-7O2Em9pgx3NzD-R5vpu1NTNlySYx-8leRnaRNJDbT-OFF9eZGCosOwnFduCBkjJs2SeyyAC6XT6Z55ecQhIIbTTi25KU0I8Fr0U0bVc8BP_-8G5i58NdwQAzcN/s400/slide_189744_350250_large.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5651978821674032050" border="0" /></a>Photo taken from: Huffington Post: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/09/06/west-indian-day-parade-2011_n_950135.html#s350250<br /><br />It's clearly been a while since I've written here, I told a friend this week that I would, and I strive to keep things I give, like promises and such. In that way it becomes half theirs, half mine.<br /><br />Last weekend was the Labour (yes, that's a 'u' in there, get an English dictionary) Day weekend, and as is customary out here in New York, they had a number of festivities and events all culminating in the street parade on the Monday's holiday. I had missed it all last year, so that this year I sought to do all things West Indian.<br /><br />On the holiday, two friends crashed at my apartment for our quiet version of Dimanche Gras, and we left home around 5:50am to look for the bands. When we found them, we pretty much just stood along the sides, watching the parade, when one of my friends fell under a strain of culture shock. Her argument was that "this is why feminism is pointless" RE: the behavior of some of the women in the street and their widespread demoralization that seemed to be spilling every which way on the street. I'm thinking that this was why I had distanced myself from Carnival in the first place back at home. It was just the sense of defeat that came from seeing women act a particular way in response to men, not just in dancing, mere behavior, even as an isolated factor, and thinking to myself...so...these are the sisters I'm fighting for...right?<br /><br />but so goes the story of liberal feminism. here is where the ideology and I meet in the middle of the highway and I refuse to stop and let her in my car. matter of fact, I start speeding. This is my own conviction, and I'm allowed to have one of those. That said,<br /><br />I really wished I had a camera though (Thank God I didn't), there were so many moments that could have been captured, the sunrise, the masqueraders, the music in the bodies of people, it was beautiful. One thing I am most appreciative over is the traditional music they use for J'ourvet. There are no speaker boxes on music trucks. There are riddim sections, pan-sides, iron-men/women and drums. It was the most organic expression of J'ourvet I've ever been part of.<br /><br />In the afternoon we spontaneously decided to go to the Parkway for the 'last lappe' which closes off at 6pm, and jumped on a train around 4:40ish to get to President street at around 5pm. We walked out to the corner of Nostrand and Eastern Parkway, after crawling through the most tense, congested crowd I think I've ever been in. 'Tense' because there was some heaviness beyond the humid, beyond the bodies, something was just off. We get to the barricade at the end of the street, and 3 seconds after a woman behind pushes against me and when I turn around, there is a tide of scampering people running towards us and then a shot, sounding like hot ice exploding in a plastic bottle. No echo. Contained. Like a body had absorbed the shock of it.<br /><br />About 3mins later we were on the train platform, waiting to jump on to the next thing that would take us away from there. My hands were shaking, I could barely text my other friend to tell him to turn his car around and head back home. I got back to my neighbood with an off-beat breathing and a quiet panic in my step. First time for everything, maybe.<br /><br />After having a week to reflect, I started to think of the 24shootings in 24hrs phenomenon that happened throughout NY state on the Labor Day weekend. Why is it specifically this weekend, when everything is dedicated to "West India" that all these acts of violence happen and at such a rate? I started to question whether it was an issue of us having imported so much of our culture to New York and whether it reflects the increasing violence in our own island home societies. I'm not sure how much of the integrative process of young Caribbean men coming into the New York setting involves some kind of introduction or even re-introduction to criminal activity or behavior, but I'm at a loss for words over the hint of the idea that there may be some cultural connection to the violence. I hope not, but I don't want to dismiss it entirely just yet.<br /><br />All in all, the day had been mostly enjoyable one for me, but punctuated by few mins that could have cost me my life. I think there can be some more substantial evaluation to take place here.anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-71140238993176370132011-08-09T03:26:00.002-04:002011-08-09T03:28:59.318-04:00To: a halfway migration.I'm currently testing out a new cyberspatial location. I might just use this blog for my journal-type entries and use my new tumblr page for all other things fancy etc.
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<br />anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-64048987216645613212011-08-03T11:15:00.005-04:002011-08-03T12:09:14.564-04:00To: Everything We Borrow and Keep as Our Own.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtrhb43BJfc8l3a4X82VG3tvtwOfzCI5zmw96vtuSZD2sUK1bn7J0sIOowYMSXDNyiNsmmfvAYZnhaHCePKKy4h4qGVCTHzMdSTYXtPaIPKGsH-Hf44qakqio2Ly2TxRzWOpqDaP1Vxwoj/s1600/e3ced732-07f8-11dd-b0dd-7d36fb01dcb3.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 225px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgtrhb43BJfc8l3a4X82VG3tvtwOfzCI5zmw96vtuSZD2sUK1bn7J0sIOowYMSXDNyiNsmmfvAYZnhaHCePKKy4h4qGVCTHzMdSTYXtPaIPKGsH-Hf44qakqio2Ly2TxRzWOpqDaP1Vxwoj/s400/e3ced732-07f8-11dd-b0dd-7d36fb01dcb3.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5636660278496783858" border="0" /></a><br /><span style="font-family:verdana;">I wonder how difficult it is to embrace the work of the independence movement for the average young person living in a neo-colony like Martinique or another D</span><span class="st"><em><span style="font-family:verdana;">épartement D'outre-Mer when that life is all you have known since you have known yourself. What do the names of Cesaire and Fannon register as in the minds of the population within my age group? France and the other respective metropoles (inclusive of the United States) are still the idealist societies and cultures, sought to be replicated in a context of life that continues to not need or benefit from it.<br /><br />I remember my aunt saying last week of her mother that she reminisces of the days of the British Empire and that if Trinidad was still a colony then we would not have had the crime problem that we do now. I didn't think there were elders who still thought like that. Regardless of how emotional I may feel over a sentiment like that, what I should come to acknowledge is that not everyone is/was in favor of Independence, which actually gives enough evidence of itself in the very word 'dependence'. It is as simple as that.<br /><br />My friend in Martinique has always wanted to be a model. I recently saw a studio shot of her in a social network update and clearly she is on her way to establishing herself in that career. What struck me however, was how the lighting was arranged and how much more lighter skinned she had been made to look. A stark contrast from her normal, everyday moment, smiling with family and friends photos. It made me consider what is it that we are willing to sacrifice to come by the 'ideal' image or the 'ideal' set of circumstances. What are the type of compromises we are willing to make to get from point A to point B?<br /><br />How much of ourselves are we willing to lose, to gain some type of perfection by someone else's standards.<br /></span></em></span>anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-86907105420351727212011-07-31T16:42:00.004-04:002011-08-01T01:44:44.521-04:00To: the promise in Eden.the poem will not write itself.<br />the sun will not move to midday position at moontime.<br />breakfast would not find your stomach through osmosis.<br />weeds grow where they want, stifle the legit ones,<br />labor is pain only when you're on your back.<br />or a maternity ward.<br />or both.<br />labor is the world moving itself quarter seconds at a time<br />how force gets applied to the moving of things.<br />how the moving of things comes by effort<br />how everything comes by effort,<br />how loving you the right way is only by measure of effort.<br />and Baba said all work is prayer.<br />I am praying with all the effort in me.<br /><br />Arielle John<br /><br />copyright <b>©</b>2011anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-48367788369107838952011-07-25T22:56:00.005-04:002011-07-25T23:18:39.955-04:00To: last week being a week ago.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvEuw-lIkY77LIOs49_rCkhkorMzN3dWviHe4wqNco045CQIiNVRfMo4AgLCHLL7IpIeEux9w2X85JAK7ZeJEub0lNBR1Wva6QrrxcIG3YaK_WSiA-ew0cuYgqKJ-884r8ZPaniQossuhy/s1600/IMG_3462.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhvEuw-lIkY77LIOs49_rCkhkorMzN3dWviHe4wqNco045CQIiNVRfMo4AgLCHLL7IpIeEux9w2X85JAK7ZeJEub0lNBR1Wva6QrrxcIG3YaK_WSiA-ew0cuYgqKJ-884r8ZPaniQossuhy/s400/IMG_3462.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5633494218009561490" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZC63ZWwtb5e5WthHcnFFbBuFwHS4iPUuLOL8mGhjOWEsNzx0HHqyIJF9Qi4BbvYx_BIub8FJUgQom5lPa-gBZe1Hb-I6q71HCgRqrOEvbjhE5Zby_g85CqaouDVuC40WE9i0FR3qiRzCr/s1600/265233_10150728639690093_903285092_19906654_7514595_o.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 266px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjZC63ZWwtb5e5WthHcnFFbBuFwHS4iPUuLOL8mGhjOWEsNzx0HHqyIJF9Qi4BbvYx_BIub8FJUgQom5lPa-gBZe1Hb-I6q71HCgRqrOEvbjhE5Zby_g85CqaouDVuC40WE9i0FR3qiRzCr/s400/265233_10150728639690093_903285092_19906654_7514595_o.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5633493650474746626" border="0" /></a><br />So the outta dis realm week has more or less closed, the memory is being stored for safe-keeping and BNV <span style="font-style: italic;">tabanca</span> is in full swing. Today was the first day of rest since I came out to California, and every ache and stiff muscle is worth it.<br /><br />It was none less than beautiful to be surrounded by that energy again and to marvel at the sight of God in other people. The offering of stories, the commitments to change, the urgency for being light. I am eternally grateful for my Future Corps team. Such an amazing collection of minds and momentum. So many people to thank for changing my life this week.<br /><br />Possibility. the beginning of all things great.<br /><br /><br /><table id="entries"><tbody><tr><td class="index"><span style="font-size:85%;"><a href="http://tabanca.urbanup.com/2080690">1.</a> </span></td> <td class="word"><span style="font-size:85%;"> tabanca </span></td> <td class="tools" id="tools_2080690"> <span class="status"></span><span class="thumbs"></span><br /></td> </tr> <tr> <td><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /></span></td> <td class="text" colspan="2" id="entry_2080690"> <div class="definition"><span style="font-size:85%;">an extreme sadness and/or a depression following one's breakup or seperation from one's significant other.</span></div><div class="example"><span style="font-size:85%;">"a gual you ain't hear 'bout Marsha? she home wit some serious tabanca, cuz she and she man done. it was de funniest ting i hear all day."<br /></span> </div></td></tr></tbody></table>anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-50309679457558010282011-07-10T00:41:00.006-04:002011-07-10T10:49:59.570-04:00To: The lesson on Roots and Culture<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUDWy984ShnsAiTRmjSVe-o47OaP8ySOA2h788YUcEmTR39qFnkVDMJ7R3i5P2H_QQ3pUDCWy2q8oC2Z02K_z_9piHorhn7WiuG37EbScSvef2zHU6mKeWOYfJhrZVtrFV36fji__rOy3R/s1600/1.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 384px; height: 375px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUDWy984ShnsAiTRmjSVe-o47OaP8ySOA2h788YUcEmTR39qFnkVDMJ7R3i5P2H_QQ3pUDCWy2q8oC2Z02K_z_9piHorhn7WiuG37EbScSvef2zHU6mKeWOYfJhrZVtrFV36fji__rOy3R/s400/1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5627592282988679106" border="0" /></a><br />I've heard Wole Soyinka (world renowned West African writer) talk about the difficulty in having to work with Americans, that is, African Americans having to perform his plays under his direction in the United States. That is, that he has numerous challenges with dance and choreography. I've heard a British educator on TED talks lament how cerebral Europeans are, and what it does to alienate the rest of the body from itself.<br /><br />I found the colonization at a hip hop concert tonight in Brooklyn. I mean it's Brooklyn though. One of the most culturally black spots on the continent, and it occurred to me to pay attention to my body movements, granted my feet were tired, but it had all been the bobbing of the head, the occasional shift of the torso, with feet planted, not moving. I remember dancing to reggae back home, it was a full involvement of myself, maybe it's because hip hop has so many isolations to it. I found that my dancing has no fluency to it anymore, it's just rigid and definite.<br /><br />I feel like I need to reclaim that part of myself. The Afro-Caribbean me. There is a core of yourself that becomes ignored in the West. Everything happens above the stomach. I'm also supposed to start taking dance lessons in African cultural dance in the fall. we're also hoping to stage a play, us black women next semester. What is black theater without choreography? Where did this disembodiment of mine come from?<br /><br />I like what he says in the video below:<br />On Childhood Education - "As children start to grow up, we educate them from the waist up, and then we focus on their heads,... and slightly to one side."<br />On Academia- "If you want real evidence of out of body experiences by the way, get yourself a long to a residential conference of senior academics and pop into the discotheque on the final night.And there you will see it, grown men and women riving uncontrollably...off the beat."<br /><br /><br /><br /><iframe src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/iG9CE55wbtY" allowfullscreen="" frameborder="0" height="349" width="425"></iframe><br /><br />I haven't been keeping up with my blog lately not because I don't have the time, because surely, it's something you need to make time for. I just don't know how to make sense of my last month. That is, my return home as relates to my parents, friends, who embraced me, who pushed me away, things I wish I could've made better, decisions we've had to come by, I just don't feel settled about things yet. Maybe vacation has an interruptive way of making days, and I will be more definitive when I get back to a routine.<br /><br />I'm waiting on a response from CUNY to see if they accept my proposal for my own study path of Applied Theater. It's the same anxiety of having applied for your first choice college. I pray they accept it though. Also, BNV in San Fransisco is coming up in less than a week, which means i have poems to finish and to learn and to work out performances for. I'm both really hyped and anxious over it all.<br /><br />I thank God for the men in my life tonight, for those who've encouraged and supported me in these last few weeks, days, hours. For my lover, my father, my brothers back at home like Gamma, Chike, Jabari, even uncle Mark for tonight. They are crucial to my survival out here more than I may like to admit sometimes, and have been here. always. I miss my real friends.anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1526028724354369073.post-61055661867660234452011-06-14T12:25:00.006-04:002011-06-14T14:02:28.381-04:00To: The Commotion on My Head.<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZF0GcDywOlzPeMMlLL4_LQV0xFUDVJHbSHZsrzYAgC8vsclh2uUt6uYQikYB5J0k7Ho2YTlNUMN7O9R6uNQRW5TSEN_mfSqqTui5RAhO9FgjWnt4hZIca3fnkgF_76F4QfbsQv5aA9UNG/s1600/IMG_2125.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 300px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgZF0GcDywOlzPeMMlLL4_LQV0xFUDVJHbSHZsrzYAgC8vsclh2uUt6uYQikYB5J0k7Ho2YTlNUMN7O9R6uNQRW5TSEN_mfSqqTui5RAhO9FgjWnt4hZIca3fnkgF_76F4QfbsQv5aA9UNG/s400/IMG_2125.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5618124075657374306" border="0" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjG2dviZuvYNEqObXuhpoL20bU5B7zXr-yS3G0nKJH4PVNtW-n3itDw-e1LsEVEOLPB5BuBt_oaRTbrmp0anGa6ly-4fY9EYEwiOg47uH0GcdcWkMvS33uNmLAxChEi9JbXg21CWgby1XHI/s1600/Video+call+snapshot+7.png"><br /></a><br />My mother asked me before I came home, what would I be doing with my hair. I'm somewhat accustomed to hearing this question from her. It hardly bothers me anymore. She's adjusted to the idea that I can wear it as I like in New York, and a full-scale afro does nothing to irk the public. In the conservatives of my nativity space however, it's a similar sentiment Sa'nia expressed last week when talking about her journey as Rastafarian and the worry of parents that society will push us out, because we look a certain way, or celebrate life differently from the norm.<br /><br />My mother is closer to the oriental end in my family tree, her hair doesn't twist like mine, less spiral more slick. My father is African and at any opportunity would acknowledge the end of 'Spanish Blood' showing itself in his hair texture. These are the genes that groomed my hair to itself. Since my mother took her 'big chop' years long ago before I was even born, she's consistently had (along with my other aunt) the same hairdresser/s.<br /><br />I grew up waiting for my mother at hair salons, getting her monthly haircut to sangeet radio and airwave bajhans. I embraced it. More than ten years later, I found myself at the salon of the same hairdresser, friend of my mother. I could understand the buzz behind the blinds, how they calculated how they were going to deal with my hair, what would be the best way to approach the goliath, how to develop a plan d'action to combat the mass. I showed up, right? She couldn't possibly tell me I was in the wrong place.<br /><br />In the space of four hours, all of staff, all of clients, all of everyone there were East Indian, looking at me with a curious I forgot about until then. They were uneasy throughout the process, one kept asking whether she was pulling too hard (when she was hardly), one gave up when the comb wasn't going through and called for back up. One even had the groin to ask whether I was going to flat iron when I was finished, as though it was the only acceptable thing to do, to complete the look, I can't possibly be having my hair out the way I had it before. I remembered how I should not let all this bother me, because of who I am, because of whose child I am. But remembering doesn't soothe things over enough sometimes.anayajahzarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12372642861077946356noreply@blogger.com1